Is the office party becoming tamer or are things as raucous as ever? Some say it would be no bad thing if the office ‘do’ were to become the office ‘don’t’ purely in the interests of job stability.

After all, in the current climate there’s no shortage of replacements waiting in the wings and therefore bosses might be quicker to issue a P45 and prompt a change in circumstances if one or two people were to get too familiar with the photo-copier during the festivities.

So what might -- and might not -- be sound advice to follow through the party season?


Drink

Yes, it’s acceptable to loosen up a little with some bubbly or one or two of those tempting cocktails, but don’t be tempted to neck as many as possible in a short time.

Pace yourself and intersperse the alcoholic drinks with one or two fruit juices or glasses of water. Shots and drinking games might seem like harmless fun to start with, but once a group gets going it only takes two or three forfeits to lose all control -- and when that goes so does your judgment.

A loose comment or, worse, a careless action, could come back to haunt you and have dire consequences in the days or weeks ahead. Make sure that a raised glass doesn’t lead to lowered standards.


Dress

When you hear the phrase ‘Mutton dressed as lamb’ it’s best if the subject of the conversation isn’t you, so by all means glam up but don’ go completely out of character.

If you try on a dress and have the feeling ‘it’s not really me’ then don’t stray too far out of your comfort zone.

Likewise with make-up and accessories -- You can still be yourself and make a visual impact, but make sure the reaction is a ‘wow!’ rather than a snigger.


Should I go or should I stay?

Even if you don’t have a particularly good relationship with your boss or some of your colleagues, it’s always worth going.

Nobody likes a party pooper, so just roll up, find someone you don’t normally chat to in the normal course of a working week, and find out something new about your colleagues. Be a good listener, because by being interested in other people you become interesting to them.

The only bored people are boring people, so make sure you make an effort to circulate and dance with anyone who asks.


Work chat

Try not to talk ‘shop’ and definitely don’t get drawn into making personal observations about your boss or colleagues. Whatever you say may be taken down and used against you, particularly if you are mis-quoted and misunderstandings occur.

Avoid spending the evening moaning about the company you work for or the office you work in. A positive attitude will make you much more pleasant company.


Gimme a rise

The office ‘do’ is definitely not the occasion to discuss working conditions and it is not the time to butter up the boss by being flirty.

Yes, have fun and be nice, but go no further. You’ll only feel awkward when you’re back in a work situation and your working relationship can only change for the worse if your boss either feels embarrassed or that they have in some way been compromised in the sight of their team.


Practicalities

Arrange a lift home, either with a friend or family member who’ll be good enough to pick you up, or pre-book a taxi. When you get home drink some water (if you’ve had a few bevvies) and set the alarm.

Don’t skip work the next day. You won’t be the only one feeling a bit ropy and if the managers have any sense they’ll have authorised a slightly later start time if the office is opening the next day.