Marie Curie charity collector moved on from outside Marks & Spencer store

Joseph French, 81, raises funds for Marie Curie after his wife died from cancer Joseph French, 81, raises funds for Marie Curie after his wife died from cancer

AN 81-year-old man who has worked as a charity fundraiser since his wife died from cancer was ordered to move away from a York shop, he said.

Joseph French, of Derwent Road, said he was collecting for Marie Curie beside the front door of Marks & Spencer in Parliament Street on Saturday when a store manager asked him to move away as it was collecting for a different charity that day.

When he refused to move, the grandfather-of-two, who started collecting for the charity after his wife May passed away ten years ago, said the manager threatened to call the police.

A spokesman for Marks & Spencer said they had asked Mr French to move away from the door as he was causing an obstruction.

Mr French, who had a licence to sell Marie Curie daffodils and was wearing a yellow apron and hat from the charity, said: “I couldn’t believe my ears when he said ‘you will have to move on’.

“I told the man that I’d been collecting on that spot on this particular day for the last seven or eight years. He virtually called me a liar then stated that as the store manager he was telling me that I was trespassing and if I did not move on he would call the police and have me arrested.

“I took one pace forward onto the actual pavement and told him that he could call the police but, as I was licensed, I thought they might take him away first.

“For some time he stood watching me. I stood at my post until I only had one daffodil left, then I returned to our base and handed over to the next person after explaining to her what had happened.”

Mr French, a retired civil servant, said Marie Curie nurses had helped care for his wife in the final months of her life and he thanked passers-by for donating £197 during the 90 minutes he collected outside Marks & Spencer.

A spokesman for Marks & Spencer said: “Marks & Spencer York regularly welcomes and supports charity collection in and outside out stores. However, we want to ensure customers and collectors can access and leave the store in an easy and safe manner. It was certainly not our intention to cause offence and we would welcome Mr French to collect outside our store in the future.”

Comments(21)

David York says...
11:42am Thu 7 Mar 13

I suppose it is. Arguable as to where the footpath ends and the Store's ownership begins.

The spokesman says the Company welcomes and supports collections outside its store but what goes on outside its land has nothing to do with them, does it?

I witnessed a similar incident to this last year and was not impressed by what I say. I have not shopped at the store since.

Platform9 says...
12:34pm Thu 7 Mar 13

Well done for standing up to the mighty M&S

bolero says...
12:48pm Thu 7 Mar 13

What a miserable M & S g**.

Buzz Light-year says...
12:51pm Thu 7 Mar 13

It wasn't really M&S here, just one manager.
Happens all the time, you do something for ages, no-one bats an eyelid, then one person has a bad day or doesn't like the look of you and you have to bear the brunt of it.

Hope the officious misery gets a good rollicking.

Even AndyD says...
1:15pm Thu 7 Mar 13

Buzz Light-year wrote:
It wasn't really M&S here, just one manager.
Happens all the time, you do something for ages, no-one bats an eyelid, then one person has a bad day or doesn't like the look of you and you have to bear the brunt of it.

Hope the officious misery gets a good rollicking.
Agreed. Reading the official comments, it sounds like one idiot manager rather than company policy.

ReginaldBiscuit says...
1:52pm Thu 7 Mar 13

It's not just anyone calling the police, its M&S calling the police.

Unfortunately, this is modern Britain where 81 year old charity raisers have the law called on them. Corporate puppets think they own the world. Remind me never to never shop in M&S again.

York Student says...
2:14pm Thu 7 Mar 13

Unfortunately it seems the elderly gentleman actually is also a skilled story teller. Having been shopping on Saturday morning in York and witnessing this incident it is nothing like described in this article. Yes a manager from M&S asked him to move, but just away from their immediate entrance, which to be fair is within their rights, literally a couple of yards from where he was as he was right in front of the shop. He could have easily been in the way of customers coming in and out of the shop, so it seemed a very fair request. The elderly chap reacted in a very angry way, and shouted at the manager, and started slagging off M&S. He then carried on doing this when the manager moved away, at which point another pedestrian asked the collector to calm down as he was not doing the charity any favours! I then witnessed him continuing to make slanderous comments about M&S. The manager returned and just asked the gentleman to calm down, but by this point he had literally gone "mental". I cannot believe he has then gone to the press about it, as if I was the manager of M&S I would have been tempted to call the police as this guy was acting pretty erratically. Also I often see a Big Issue seller just outside M&S who stands just off their property and he never seems to be asked to move as he is not on their property. Lets not read too much into this as I know M&S do a huge amount for charity, as they supported Breakthrough Breast Cancer, and I was very grateful to them, when one of my family suffered from this horrendous disease.

Fat Harry says...
3:47pm Thu 7 Mar 13

I don't know the rights and wrongs of the incident, but I do know the Press can never resist a photograph of a very young or very old person looking glum after someone has dared not to patronise them in the manner to which they've become accustomed.

York1900 says...
3:48pm Thu 7 Mar 13

It is not the first time M&S as had charity fundraisers moved from the front of there stores

M&S also are one of the main objectors to the market been in Parliament street full time

bolero says...
3:55pm Thu 7 Mar 13

Buzz Light-year wrote:
It wasn't really M&S here, just one manager. Happens all the time, you do something for ages, no-one bats an eyelid, then one person has a bad day or doesn't like the look of you and you have to bear the brunt of it. Hope the officious misery gets a good rollicking.
Any employee of M & S is a representative of that company whether it is company policy or not.

greg 1 says...
4:08pm Thu 7 Mar 13

I was buying a daffodil from this fundraiser on saturday morning, when one of the girls from the m&s cafe came and asked him if he would like a hot drink and a teacake, ! Didnt mention that did he!

Candy Cupcake says...
4:24pm Thu 7 Mar 13

Many might not be aware, but to fund raise in the city you need to apply to the council, they will issue you with certain dates that you can do collections. In addition to this various stores including M&S allow collections on their premises.. M&S do a lot to support charities, and I don't think its unreasonable to be asked to move away from the door, especially of hey have already invited another charity into the store too collect.

jaycee says...
4:38pm Thu 7 Mar 13

The funny thing about this story is that when I went up to the counter to pay for some goods at M & S there were 2 charity boxes -one for prostrate cancer and the other involved a daffodil !! Therefore it seems like a mountain out of a molehill-possibly an over officious employee and from one of the above comments a very grumpy old man .

chunks says...
7:15pm Thu 7 Mar 13

York Student wrote:
Unfortunately it seems the elderly gentleman actually is also a skilled story teller. Having been shopping on Saturday morning in York and witnessing this incident it is nothing like described in this article. Yes a manager from M&S asked him to move, but just away from their immediate entrance, which to be fair is within their rights, literally a couple of yards from where he was as he was right in front of the shop. He could have easily been in the way of customers coming in and out of the shop, so it seemed a very fair request. The elderly chap reacted in a very angry way, and shouted at the manager, and started slagging off M&S. He then carried on doing this when the manager moved away, at which point another pedestrian asked the collector to calm down as he was not doing the charity any favours! I then witnessed him continuing to make slanderous comments about M&S. The manager returned and just asked the gentleman to calm down, but by this point he had literally gone "mental". I cannot believe he has then gone to the press about it, as if I was the manager of M&S I would have been tempted to call the police as this guy was acting pretty erratically. Also I often see a Big Issue seller just outside M&S who stands just off their property and he never seems to be asked to move as he is not on their property. Lets not read too much into this as I know M&S do a huge amount for charity, as they supported Breakthrough Breast Cancer, and I was very grateful to them, when one of my family suffered from this horrendous disease.
A very interesting post, from someone who appears to be an independent witness. Just goes to show that there are two side to every story.

AnotherPointofView says...
8:44pm Thu 7 Mar 13

chunks wrote:
York Student wrote: Unfortunately it seems the elderly gentleman actually is also a skilled story teller. Having been shopping on Saturday morning in York and witnessing this incident it is nothing like described in this article. Yes a manager from M&S asked him to move, but just away from their immediate entrance, which to be fair is within their rights, literally a couple of yards from where he was as he was right in front of the shop. He could have easily been in the way of customers coming in and out of the shop, so it seemed a very fair request. The elderly chap reacted in a very angry way, and shouted at the manager, and started slagging off M&S. He then carried on doing this when the manager moved away, at which point another pedestrian asked the collector to calm down as he was not doing the charity any favours! I then witnessed him continuing to make slanderous comments about M&S. The manager returned and just asked the gentleman to calm down, but by this point he had literally gone "mental". I cannot believe he has then gone to the press about it, as if I was the manager of M&S I would have been tempted to call the police as this guy was acting pretty erratically. Also I often see a Big Issue seller just outside M&S who stands just off their property and he never seems to be asked to move as he is not on their property. Lets not read too much into this as I know M&S do a huge amount for charity, as they supported Breakthrough Breast Cancer, and I was very grateful to them, when one of my family suffered from this horrendous disease.
A very interesting post, from someone who appears to be an independent witness. Just goes to show that there are two side to every story.
The thing is though, most people here (like chunks and myself) don't use their real name. If York Student's story is correct, then he/she should go to the press so that they can print an independant witness' account.

For all we know, York Student could be an employee of M&S trying to smear Mr French.

eeoodares says...
12:03am Fri 8 Mar 13

It is a laudable thing to collect for charity, but to stand in front of a door obstructing access is a pain in the a****. I walk over to donate to charities I support, but if one of those was obstructing my access...not a happy bunny!

eeoodares says...
12:06am Fri 8 Mar 13

AnotherPointofView wrote:
chunks wrote:
York Student wrote: Unfortunately it seems the elderly gentleman actually is also a skilled story teller. Having been shopping on Saturday morning in York and witnessing this incident it is nothing like described in this article. Yes a manager from M&S asked him to move, but just away from their immediate entrance, which to be fair is within their rights, literally a couple of yards from where he was as he was right in front of the shop. He could have easily been in the way of customers coming in and out of the shop, so it seemed a very fair request. The elderly chap reacted in a very angry way, and shouted at the manager, and started slagging off M&S. He then carried on doing this when the manager moved away, at which point another pedestrian asked the collector to calm down as he was not doing the charity any favours! I then witnessed him continuing to make slanderous comments about M&S. The manager returned and just asked the gentleman to calm down, but by this point he had literally gone "mental". I cannot believe he has then gone to the press about it, as if I was the manager of M&S I would have been tempted to call the police as this guy was acting pretty erratically. Also I often see a Big Issue seller just outside M&S who stands just off their property and he never seems to be asked to move as he is not on their property. Lets not read too much into this as I know M&S do a huge amount for charity, as they supported Breakthrough Breast Cancer, and I was very grateful to them, when one of my family suffered from this horrendous disease.
A very interesting post, from someone who appears to be an independent witness. Just goes to show that there are two side to every story.
The thing is though, most people here (like chunks and myself) don't use their real name. If York Student's story is correct, then he/she should go to the press so that they can print an independant witness' account.

For all we know, York Student could be an employee of M&S trying to smear Mr French.
Or because it is a non-story...bloke blocking door of shop asked to move aside by manager...10 mins later man moves aside! OMG what is the world coming to...

GreenshawGrinder says...
1:07am Fri 8 Mar 13

I also donate to causes of my choice, i do object to having a collection tin rattled in my face or being asked to donate. Is this not classed as begging?

Magicman! says...
2:43am Fri 8 Mar 13

bolero wrote:
What a miserable M & S g**.
He didn't have red glasses on did he?

anistasia says...
7:19am Fri 8 Mar 13

If the seller as sold in the same spot all them years why m&s change their minds now.these charity workers give their time free and this man lost his wife to the condition he's raising funds for.just hope management never need help with cancer treatment but can't get it because lack of funds.m&s should make a donation.

jaycee says...
9:31am Fri 8 Mar 13

Anistasia,as I said in my previous post there is a Marie Curie charity box at the payment counter in the mens department as well as a prostrate cancer box so M & S can't be classed as not donating to the said charity.

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