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Baffled by booze ban

2:04pm Wednesday 14th May 2008

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By Richard Harris »

CHECKOUT staff at a York supermarket refused to serve a woman alcohol because she had her teenage stepson with her.

Debbie Bell, of Pateley Place, in Acomb, York, went to the Tesco Extra store at Askham Bar on Sunday afternoon to buy a crate of lager while her husband was buying petrol.

The 39-year-old went into the supermarket with her 18-year-old stepson, Michael.

But when she got to the checkout, the assistant asked a supervisor whether he could serve her.

Mrs Bell said: "They said no' and asked my stepson if he had any ID. I said to Michael to go get his dad but they said that even if I got my husband they still would not serve us as we had an underage lad with us.

"Then he asked me to put the case of lager back and I told him to get stuffed.

"You can't do that just because somebody has kids with them. I was in there the day before with a 17-year-old lass and there were no problems."

She said her stepson was not even carrying the beer, he was just standing next to her and she said if it was Tesco policy not to serve people who have teenagers with them then it was a "stupid" policy.

A spokesman for Tesco apologised for the inconvenience but said the company had introduced the policy earlier in the year in a bid to stop underage drinking. He said that as far as he knew Mrs Bell's was the first complaint from the Askham Bar store about the scheme, but admitted that no records were kept of customer complaints.

He said: "There was a huge problem with kids attempting to buy alcohol so very strict policies were put in place to stop this, but the other problem is underage people getting adults to buy alcohol for them."

To combat this he said that all cashiers are instructed not to sell alcohol to adults if they suspect it may be drunk by someone who is underage.

He added: "It is very, very hard to gauge, but what we say to our cashiers is to err on the side of caution."


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Do you think the Tesco policy is a good idea?

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petethefeet, York says...
2:08pm Wed 14 May 08

This is totally rubbish. Even if her son is under-age, she is legally allowed to buy alcohol for his consumption so long as she doesn't sell it to him. The law might be a ****, but a parent can give alcohol to any child of 5 or over. Not that I'm suggesting that they do.

petethefeet, York says...
2:09pm Wed 14 May 08

huh..that censor. I compared the law to a relative of a donkey!

akuma, everywhere says...
2:14pm Wed 14 May 08

I compeltely agree with Tesco on this one.

We've all complained about drunk teenagers roaming the streets, and in this instance it appears that Tesco have got it wrong.

But overall, I agree if they even suspect that the booze is to be purchased for teens to consume on the street, then fair play to them, I'd say no.

Well done Tesco for trying.

Jules, York says...
2:16pm Wed 14 May 08

This is ridiculous, this same store refused to sell me alcohol back in February this year, I am 37 years old..... Yes I was flattered the assistant thought I looked under 30 but come on, are they not allowed to use their common sense?? I wrote to a letter to Tescos head office complaining about this and didn't get any response.

pgtips, upstairs says...
2:17pm Wed 14 May 08

So, she told the Tesco employee to get stuffed. Alcohol or not I don't think Tesco's want customers who are abusive, just because they don't get their own way.

Good riddance, shop somewhere else then.

pgt

very_tolerant, York says...
2:21pm Wed 14 May 08

It's very easy to criticise Tesco but when you consider that if this was a test purchase by the council/trading standards that the cashier is personally liable for a £5000 fine and possibly the loss of their job and the store could lose it's acohol licence then it gives a different slant to the story from the stores side. Also if you knowingly buy acohol for an underage drinker you could be find £500 if caught by trading standards. People are quick to blame retailers for the problem of drunk youngsters then when the retailers try to combat it they are slammed aswell it seems to me that they can't win!

chris2705, york says...
2:23pm Wed 14 May 08

what so parents take there kids into the store with them and do they get rufused alcohol sale, because there kids are underage. what would happen in this case????

exYorkist, USA says...
2:24pm Wed 14 May 08

I think Tesco's handling of this is outrageous. She's over 18, he's over 18...what's the issue? Everyone involved in the purchase was old enough to drink anyway. They have some nerve.

I would urge people to carry photo IDs with them to avoid this sort of thing in future, though.

The Crack Fox, Coming at you, like a razor says...
2:26pm Wed 14 May 08

I get ID'd all the time nowadays, its stupid the woman on the till at M&S told me the other day that its now their policy to ID anyone who looks under 30, wheres it gonna stop....

Diogenes, College Station, Texas says...
2:30pm Wed 14 May 08

akuma wrote:
I compeltely agree with Tesco on this one. We've all complained about drunk teenagers roaming the streets, and in this instance it appears that Tesco have got it wrong. But overall, I agree if they even suspect that the booze is to be purchased for teens to consume on the street, then fair play to them, I'd say no. Well done Tesco for trying.
Heartily agree with this person.
Underage MUST be enforced even if there is the odd few who are caught in the cross fire!

Diogenes, College Station, Texas says...
2:31pm Wed 14 May 08

exYorkist wrote:
I think Tesco's handling of this is outrageous. She's over 18, he's over 18...what's the issue? Everyone involved in the purchase was old enough to drink anyway. They have some nerve. I would urge people to carry photo IDs with them to avoid this sort of thing in future, though.
The young man was not carrying ID.
End of.

exYorkist, USA says...
2:33pm Wed 14 May 08

The Crack Fox wrote:
I get ID'd all the time nowadays, its stupid the woman on the till at M&S told me the other day that its now their policy to ID anyone who looks under 30, wheres it gonna stop....
That's pretty much how it goes in this state too. If you look younger than the arbitrarily-chosen age of 27, staff are required to ask for your ID. I'm a few years older than that, can pass for younger, and am carded almost every time I buy cigarettes (legal age 18) or alcohol (21) but strangely, NEVER for lottery tickets (also 18).

It's a minor inconvenience; in this state you are required to keep your driver's licence with you whenever you're driving and since we drive almost everywhere here, you're rarely without photo ID.

Bemused, York says...
2:34pm Wed 14 May 08

Its the licensee's prerogative, but we're only hearing one side of the story. Perhaps there was an attitude problem somewhere along the line?

exYorkist, USA says...
2:35pm Wed 14 May 08

Diogenes wrote:
exYorkist wrote: I think Tesco's handling of this is outrageous. She's over 18, he's over 18...what's the issue? Everyone involved in the purchase was old enough to drink anyway. They have some nerve. I would urge people to carry photo IDs with them to avoid this sort of thing in future, though.
The young man was not carrying ID. End of.
He also wasn't the one purchasing the alcohol. End of. Tesco's policy is obnoxious.

bored, home says...
2:39pm Wed 14 May 08

petethefeet wrote:
This is totally rubbish. Even if her son is under-age, she is legally allowed to buy alcohol for his consumption so long as she doesn't sell it to him. The law might be a ****, but a parent can give alcohol to any child of 5 or over. Not that I'm suggesting that they do.
errrm no pete, I think you will find that if you did this the long arm of the law would be quite happy to slap a nice fine on you. It is not legal for a minor to buy alcohol, or for an adult to purchase it for them.

petethefeet, York says...
2:41pm Wed 14 May 08

very_tolerant wrote:
It's very easy to criticise Tesco but when you consider that if this was a test purchase by the council/trading standards that the cashier is personally liable for a £5000 fine and possibly the loss of their job and the store could lose it's acohol licence then it gives a different slant to the story from the stores side. Also if you knowingly buy acohol for an underage drinker you could be find £500 if caught by trading standards. People are quick to blame retailers for the problem of drunk youngsters then when the retailers try to combat it they are slammed aswell it seems to me that they can't win!
So long as the person purchasing the alcohol is over 18 then the store is in the clear. If somebody buys it and SELLS it, to somebody under 18 then they are breaking the law - not the store

Jack Meadows, Sun Hill says...
2:42pm Wed 14 May 08

"You can't do that just because somebody has kids with them. I was in there the day before with a 17-year-old lass and there were no problems."
You can tell what a classy lady she is......not

Jack Meadows, Sun Hill says...
2:43pm Wed 14 May 08

"Then he asked me to put the case of lager back and I told him to get stuffed.
Sorry missed that bit off, and sorry she aint a lady

petethefeet, York says...
2:46pm Wed 14 May 08

bored wrote:
petethefeet wrote: This is totally rubbish. Even if her son is under-age, she is legally allowed to buy alcohol for his consumption so long as she doesn't sell it to him. The law might be a ****, but a parent can give alcohol to any child of 5 or over. Not that I'm suggesting that they do.
errrm no pete, I think you will find that if you did this the long arm of the law would be quite happy to slap a nice fine on you. It is not legal for a minor to buy alcohol, or for an adult to purchase it for them.
Check your facts. The law regarding 18 is only about purchasing alcohol. Only if the child is under 5 can you be prosecuted for giving them alcohol

Are you aware that, since about 2003, an adult is allowed to purchse alsohol for a 16/17 year old in a restaurant?

catty, york says...
2:47pm Wed 14 May 08

I also agree that underage drinking is a problem that needs a solution, but does that mean that us responsible parents, that happen to have our kids with us cannot buy alcohol?

Diogenes, College Station, Texas says...
2:49pm Wed 14 May 08

exYorkist wrote:
Diogenes wrote:
exYorkist wrote: I think Tesco's handling of this is outrageous. She's over 18, he's over 18...what's the issue? Everyone involved in the purchase was old enough to drink anyway. They have some nerve. I would urge people to carry photo IDs with them to avoid this sort of thing in future, though.
The young man was not carrying ID. End of.
He also wasn't the one purchasing the alcohol. End of. Tesco's policy is obnoxious.
Whatever a purveyor of alcohol does to restrict the sale of alcohol to underage people must be applauded.
Just ask the highway patrol officers or state troopers! They have to srape up the remains of drunk drivers and their victims!

lels, york says...
2:50pm Wed 14 May 08

I am OUTRAGED! I've never been refused booze or been asked for ID. Now where is that anti-wrinkle cream?!!!

petethefeet, York says...
2:50pm Wed 14 May 08

I lifted the following from wikipedia
"The legal age to purchase alcohol is 18. People aged 16 and 17, with the licensee's permission, may consume wine, beer or cider with a table meal in specific areas of the premises provided they are with an adult and the adult orders it (England & Wales only, Scotland no adult required to be present). The legal age for the purchase of liqueur chocolates is 16. The legal age for drinking in one's home is 5 provided parental consent is given. Children under 5 must not be given alcohol unless under medical supervision in an emergency. You may not buy alcohol for a drunk person on licensed premises. All off-sales are advised to ask for photographic ID if the person looks under 21.
Purchasing alcohol on behalf of a minor above five years old is illegal only if the alcohol is to consume in a pub or public place. In Scotland, from 2009 purchasing alcohol for any minor will be made illegal"

chris2705, york says...
2:50pm Wed 14 May 08

catty wrote:
I also agree that underage drinking is a problem that needs a solution, but does that mean that us responsible parents, that happen to have our kids with us cannot buy alcohol?
that is exactly what they are saying because there policy says you need id if you look under 30 they do not use common sense so if you got kids with you no alcohol

bored, home says...
2:51pm Wed 14 May 08

petethefeet wrote:
bored wrote:
petethefeet wrote: This is totally rubbish. Even if her son is under-age, she is legally allowed to buy alcohol for his consumption so long as she doesn't sell it to him. The law might be a ****, but a parent can give alcohol to any child of 5 or over. Not that I'm suggesting that they do.
errrm no pete, I think you will find that if you did this the long arm of the law would be quite happy to slap a nice fine on you. It is not legal for a minor to buy alcohol, or for an adult to purchase it for them.
Check your facts. The law regarding 18 is only about purchasing alcohol. Only if the child is under 5 can you be prosecuted for giving them alcohol Are you aware that, since about 2003, an adult is allowed to purchse alsohol for a 16/17 year old in a restaurant?
No, purchasing on behalf of a minor is not legal, and never has been. I doesnt matter if you sell it to them/give it to them for free etc because the principle is the same. Alcohol from a licenced premesis when served with a meal is correct and has been for quite some time.

Jef, Yorkshire says...
2:58pm Wed 14 May 08

bored wrote:
petethefeet wrote:
bored wrote:
petethefeet wrote: This is totally rubbish. Even if her son is under-age, she is legally allowed to buy alcohol for his consumption so long as she doesn't sell it to him. The law might be a ****, but a parent can give alcohol to any child of 5 or over. Not that I'm suggesting that they do.
errrm no pete, I think you will find that if you did this the long arm of the law would be quite happy to slap a nice fine on you. It is not legal for a minor to buy alcohol, or for an adult to purchase it for them.
Check your facts. The law regarding 18 is only about purchasing alcohol. Only if the child is under 5 can you be prosecuted for giving them alcohol Are you aware that, since about 2003, an adult is allowed to purchse alsohol for a 16/17 year old in a restaurant?
No, purchasing on behalf of a minor is not legal, and never has been. I doesnt matter if you sell it to them/give it to them for free etc because the principle is the same. Alcohol from a licenced premesis when served with a meal is correct and has been for quite some time.
A parent is allowed too buy alcohol for children over 5 to be consumed in the home just not in pubs or public places.

akuma, everywhere says...
3:07pm Wed 14 May 08

Nope still agree with Tesco.

As a barman, I have to constantly refuse to serve people who are 18+ as I know they are buying for under age people that out sat of of my sight.

OK, I recon now and again I'll get it wrong, but over all I think its worth erring on the site of caution.

tonesview, york says...
3:09pm Wed 14 May 08

highway patrol officers, state troopers ???? WTF


Where am I ????

Jef, Yorkshire says...
3:11pm Wed 14 May 08

akuma wrote:
Nope still agree with Tesco. As a barman, I have to constantly refuse to serve people who are 18+ as I know they are buying for under age people that out sat of of my sight. OK, I recon now and again I'll get it wrong, but over all I think its worth erring on the site of caution.
But children over 5 are allowed to drink in the home with their parents. Its just illegal in pubs and public places.

petethefeet, York says...
3:12pm Wed 14 May 08

akuma wrote:
Nope still agree with Tesco. As a barman, I have to constantly refuse to serve people who are 18+ as I know they are buying for under age people that out sat of of my sight. OK, I recon now and again I'll get it wrong, but over all I think its worth erring on the site of caution.
Pubs are different. The issue is supermarket sales - for consumption elsewhere.

Redr, york says...
3:13pm Wed 14 May 08

I need a drink

Diogenes, College Station, Texas says...
3:16pm Wed 14 May 08

tonesview wrote:
highway patrol officers, state troopers ???? WTF Where am I ????
Just giving another perspective!

akuma, everywhere says...
3:19pm Wed 14 May 08

petethefeet wrote:
akuma wrote: Nope still agree with Tesco. As a barman, I have to constantly refuse to serve people who are 18+ as I know they are buying for under age people that out sat of of my sight. OK, I recon now and again I'll get it wrong, but over all I think its worth erring on the site of caution.
Pubs are different. The issue is supermarket sales - for consumption elsewhere.
But if they suspect that "eslewhere" is on the street, then they should refuse to serve, 18+ or not.

Peachy4, york says...
3:23pm Wed 14 May 08

Even is Tesco were in the wrong why then should they be subject to this person being abusive to the staff (who are only doing the job they are told to do)by telling them to get stuffed.
And personally all you moaning about Tesco would be the first to complain if a gang of drunken yobs started shouting and being abusive towards you while drinking alcohol bought by stupid parents !!!

julie, YORK says...
3:25pm Wed 14 May 08

CAN SEE EVERY 1 LEAVING THERE KIDS OUTSIDE TESCO WHEN THEY WANT TO BUY ALOCHOL OR TESCO CAN ALWAYS PUT A SIGN OUTSIDE ...LEAVE UNDER AGE KIDS HERE LOL

akuma, everywhere says...
3:26pm Wed 14 May 08

all you moaning about Tesco would be the first to complain if a gang of drunken yobs started shouting and being abusive towards you while drinking alcohol bought by stupid parents !!!


So very true!

Bring on the NIMBY's to deny it though!!!

petethefeet, York says...
3:29pm Wed 14 May 08

Peachy4 wrote:
Even is Tesco were in the wrong why then should they be subject to this person being abusive to the staff (who are only doing the job they are told to do)by telling them to get stuffed. And personally all you moaning about Tesco would be the first to complain if a gang of drunken yobs started shouting and being abusive towards you while drinking alcohol bought by stupid parents !!!
Peachy. The problem has been caused by this unreasonable policy. Even if this lady was puchasing alcohol for an under-age son to sup on the street, then next time she'll simply tell him to wait outside. These "customers" had driven their to rightfully purchase a legal product.

As for kids drinking on the street? So far as I can determine, it's not illegal so long as a local restriction is not in force and that their money has not been involved. Bonkers maybe, but that's the law. As usual, the police can be economic with the truth. In many cases this is understandable but when it spills over and manifests itself in a stupid policy like that conceived by Tesco then it's understandable that people get angry.

David, York says...
3:30pm Wed 14 May 08

Its a shame more companies dont act like this. Crates of cheap lager with teenage kids is a disaster waiting to happen. The mentality of some people though - why on Earth would she involve the press and then pose for a photo that makes the whole family look like binge drinking chavs!

Cruddass is a muppett, says...
3:32pm Wed 14 May 08

I think Tesco have gone a bit OTT with their drink policies in the past. I also think they are hypocritical because in one breath they are selling rock bottom priced booze which is affordable to teenagers, and in the next coming out with new policies on booze. But I think they were right in this case.

petethefeet, York says...
3:33pm Wed 14 May 08

Oh my, I see the guardians of public morals are on the move again.

Cruddass is a muppett, says...
3:34pm Wed 14 May 08

julie wrote:
CAN SEE EVERY 1 LEAVING THERE KIDS OUTSIDE TESCO WHEN THEY WANT TO BUY ALOCHOL OR TESCO CAN ALWAYS PUT A SIGN OUTSIDE ...LEAVE UNDER AGE KIDS HERE LOL
As long as the signwriter could spell better than you, that would be funny.

platform 9, york says...
3:36pm Wed 14 May 08

I wonder if they have the same policy for purchasing tabacco, glue, lighter fluid etc;

akuma, everywhere says...
3:37pm Wed 14 May 08

Peachy. The problem has been caused by this unreasonable policy. Even if this lady was puchasing alcohol for an under-age son to sup on the street, then next time she'll simply tell him to wait outside.


Maybe, but I'd rather they try than simply turn a blind eye to it as people will try to find ways around it.

These "customers" had driven their to rightfully purchase a legal product.


A licence permises can refuse to serve who they want, for any reason they want, any time they want. The customer has no legal entitlement or rights.

As for kids drinking on the street? So far as I can determine, it's not illegal so long as a local restriction is not in force and that their money has not been involved.


Clearly street drinking is not an issue where you live as if it was, you'd not have that opinion.

tonesview, york says...
3:37pm Wed 14 May 08

What a ' to do' about nothing.
Nobody 's hurt. Fact is, they will
probably have gone to Asda, left the kid in the car and got it there
anyway.Whilst supermarkets sell alcohol, it will be impossible to police.

Mr_Soul, says...
3:57pm Wed 14 May 08

If they are going to implement this policy fairly then a woman with a baby should also be refused service.

I don't know why anyone shops at Tesco anyway. It's the worst of all the big chains.

I certainly won't shop there ever again after reading this ridiculous story.

TE, York says...
4:04pm Wed 14 May 08

When it comes to Alchohol......Every little helps!

lastword morris, Haxby Rd says...
4:04pm Wed 14 May 08

Well it seem sincredibly difficult to get canned up these days SO....WHERE did the two 8/10 year olds on Huntington rd last night get their can of carling???? Thet were both on those really small bikes and riding in the middle of the room drinking out of the cans!!

TE, York says...
4:06pm Wed 14 May 08

lastword morris wrote:
Well it seem sincredibly difficult to get canned up these days SO....WHERE did the two 8/10 year olds on Huntington rd last night get their can of carling???? Thet were both on those really small bikes and riding in the middle of the room drinking out of the cans!!
Haxby of course!

lastword morris, Haxby Rd says...
4:09pm Wed 14 May 08

Haxby???where??

TE, York says...
4:11pm Wed 14 May 08

Haxby Rd, your house....stop giving booze to minors!

lastword morris, Haxby Rd says...
4:14pm Wed 14 May 08

haha....last night I went out on my bike and had 3xguiness and 2xneat gin and guess what??? I walked home cos I forgot I was in my bike....had to send the hubby out today to retrieve it...

AdmiralN, York Centre says...
4:18pm Wed 14 May 08

Just ask the highway patrol officers or state troopers!


Ok i appreciate yours & ex-yorkists point, but you are in the USA, the laws that you abide to are not applicable here. UK has its own laws!!

TE, York says...
4:19pm Wed 14 May 08

That's why you're only 80% (8/10ths)you left the bike.
;-)

lastword morris, Haxby Rd says...
4:20pm Wed 14 May 08

my 16 year old niece in California was found a littel drunk. She was fined and her and my sister had to go to AA plus counselling....

lastword morris, Haxby Rd says...
4:23pm Wed 14 May 08

TE wrote:
That's why you're only 80% (8/10ths)you left the bike. ;-)
sorry to be dim but I dont quite understand..can you simplify (Gin damage you know)

X, At Work says...
4:24pm Wed 14 May 08

Whilst I agree that something has to be done about under age drinking on the street (yes it is an offense to have alcahol in your possession if you are under 18 unless you are in your own home)I think this was a bit unfair on the woman involved.

I can go into Tesco and be refused beer because I have my 4 yr old with me, I can walk out of Tesco and into the Flying Legends who will happily sell me the beer and provide me with a safe area to allow my children to play.

There has to be more to this story than is being published, perhaps the sales person know the people involved, perhaps they were talking about him having the beer, perhaps he put the beer on the till. he had no ID so was never going to get served.

the picture shows them as A model family :-)


X, At Work says...
4:26pm Wed 14 May 08

Sorry spellings gone to pot on my last post :-)

Is it 5pm yet???

A87, york says...
4:27pm Wed 14 May 08

i went for a pint after work the other day, on my way home i stopped at tesco to buy a few more cans, i got id'd as always and they still wouldnt serve me because they could smell alcohol on my breath! pathetic!

X, At Work says...
4:33pm Wed 14 May 08

A87 wrote:
i went for a pint after work the other day, on my way home i stopped at tesco to buy a few more cans, i got id'd as always and they still wouldnt serve me because they could smell alcohol on my breath! pathetic!
I can see where they are coming from with that one though... but you were possibly legal to drive so they had no excuse really.. sounds like the managers been talking to his staff and they are expecting some test cases!!

Flash, York says...
4:40pm Wed 14 May 08

I will certainlt be buying my beer elsewhere from now on,I would be furious if i was refused just because i had my son with me.

YorkieMan, York, UK says...
4:41pm Wed 14 May 08

Tesco is completely out of order on this one. My 16 year old always accompanies me whenever I do a 'big shop' at Tesco and afterwards we have a coffee together in their cafe. My shopping usually includes beer and wine. What am I supposed to tell him now "Sorry you cannot come shopping with me now so you'll have to stop at home while I struggle with all the bags on my own and have a solitary coffee looking like a 'billy no mates'.
Message to Tesco - I'm a big boy now and I can buy alcohol. I can even if I so choose allow my strapping son to help me carry it to the car. Stop me from buying it and someone is going to have one big puddle to clear up when it gets 'accidentally ' dropped at the checkout on a busy Saturday.

amigo, york says...
4:42pm Wed 14 May 08

hi to all, and petethefeet, nice day!

Chumpy69, York says...
5:23pm Wed 14 May 08

A87 wrote:
i went for a pint after work the other day, on my way home i stopped at tesco to buy a few more cans, i got id'd as always and they still wouldnt serve me because they could smell alcohol on my breath! pathetic!
What a Joke !!!
Why dont they just ban alcohol from supermarkets, as they are making it harder and harder for the public to purchase...
1) If you have kids with you, leave them outside or else you won't be able to purchase alcohol.
2) Don't go into the supermarket smelling of alcohol, and attempt to buy some.. even if you walked because they will refuse to serve you.
3) Make sure you keep ID on you at all times even if you are over 30.(what about a few that don't have any form of ID?)

Chumpy69, York says...
5:24pm Wed 14 May 08

A87 wrote:
i went for a pint after work the other day, on my way home i stopped at tesco to buy a few more cans, i got id'd as always and they still wouldnt serve me because they could smell alcohol on my breath! pathetic!
What a Joke !!!
Why dont they just ban alcohol from supermarkets, as they are making it harder and harder for the public to purchase...
1) If you have kids with you, leave them outside or else you won't be able to purchase alcohol.
2) Don't go into the supermarket smelling of alcohol, and attempt to buy some.. even if you walked because they will refuse to serve you.
3) Make sure you keep ID on you at all times even if you are over 30.(what about a few that don't have any form of ID?)

Lamplighter, says...
5:34pm Wed 14 May 08

YorkieMan wrote:
Tesco is completely out of order on this one. My 16 year old always accompanies me whenever I do a 'big shop' at Tesco and afterwards we have a coffee together in their cafe. My shopping usually includes beer and wine. What am I supposed to tell him now "Sorry you cannot come shopping with me now so you'll have to stop at home while I struggle with all the bags on my own and have a solitary coffee looking like a 'billy no mates'. Message to Tesco - I'm a big boy now and I can buy alcohol. I can even if I so choose allow my strapping son to help me carry it to the car. Stop me from buying it and someone is going to have one big puddle to clear up when it gets 'accidentally ' dropped at the checkout on a busy Saturday.
I don't think they bother if you're buying the alcohol in with the weekly shop. I get the impression that these people were only buying alcohol, which is probably why they were refused. This is only my opinion though, I don't know for sure, but I do know that common sense is applied in most cases.